Reform Mormons proclaim that honest, committed
relationships are important and valuable
traditions in our society. Marriage is one
way of honoring those relationships with
a ceremony that informs society of the relationship.
Other traditions include other unions of
similar importance and information. Any union
between individuals creates a desirable situation
for our society so long as it is based upon
honesty, respect, and love.
As Reform Mormons, we believe that all human
beings are beloved spirit children of heavenly
parents, and as such, each has a divine nature
and destiny. Understanding this helps us
understand the need to treat each person
with dignity and respect. We believe that
this individual respect forms the basis for
our relationships.
We believe that relationships formed in this
existence can extend beyond death, into our
eternal existence. Sacred ceremonies, conducted
in temples, recognize, honor, and sanctify
these relationships for eternity. With the
perspective that such relationship commitments
extend beyond the grave, we tend to take
a different view of the scope and importance
of these relationships than most who limit
their commitments to temporal-only timeframes.
We believe that acting morally and accountably
in this life is important training for the
next, as well as important to having healthy
familiar and societal relationships. Our
moral actions are based upon our individual
understandings of right and wrong, and not
upon a prescribed code. We believe in accepting
the consequences of our actions. We believe
that the man/woman relationship is a natural
occurrence, and that children resulting from
this relationship are important and valuable,
and that the formation of a family based
upon this occurrence is normal and welcome.
We also believe that relationships between
men and between women naturally occur, and
that families and children resulting from
these relationships are important and valuable.
In many cases, children are raised by single
parents, or extended families; these cases
are as important and valuable as any other.
Within our society, a variety of relationships
form to offer stable environments for raising
children. We believe that all should be viewed
as valuable, important, and worthy of respect
and support.
Since we believe in behaving morally and
accountably, those who have made a commitment
to foster and care for the benefit of children
have a solemn responsibility to fulfill their
commitment. Children deserve to be raised
in an environment of love and service for
one another; to be taught healthy principles
that foster their growth; to have their physical
and spiritual needs met. Those who have committed
to do this must be prepared to fulfill their
commitment and consequently account for their
actions.
Successful families are established and maintained
on principles of faith, prayer, forgiveness,
respect, love, compassion, work, and fun.
Those guiding their families are to nurture
their children, and provide protection and
the necessities of life.
We call upon all people to behave morally
and accountably; to honor the commitments
they have made, to recognize the eternal
nature of other people and relationships,
to hold equally valuable the various families
of all types which are designed to honor
these relationships and commitments, and
to foster environments where our children
learn to develop that part of themselves
which will allow them to aspire to greatness.
This proclamation was published January 4, 2006, by Reform Mormonism.